Statistics indicate that gang and gang violence amongst children and
adults is on the rise. Especially in urban areas where there are many
businesses and poverty is rampant. For youth, there is often a disconnect
between the child and the family. For adults, there is a myriad of
reasons.
Our top adverse contender is peer pressure, followed by; the need to be
accepted; feeling like an outcast, and a need for security.
Peer Pressure
Peer pressure is nothing more than the undue influence exerted by a peer
group upon an individual to cause them to change or modify their beliefs, attitude
or behavior in conformity with the group. For the youth, this could mean
something as simple as changing the way they dress to as extreme as taking
a life.
Gangs use strength in numbers to gain even greater numbers convincing others
of their code. Youngsters find gangs relatively easy to enter but
extremely hard to escape. The tasks the new recruit is given is simple,
at first, but becomes more difficult as time goes by. Assignments such as
fighting and stealing eventually turn to robbery and murder. Before he
realizes it, he is hopelessly lost in a web of violence. His pleas for
help and escape from the group often fall on deaf ears.
Need To Be Accepted
We all come from a family and have a need to belong. Within the
family, we give and receive as part of the group dynamic. When we have a
need that we feel is not being met in the group, we turn to those outside the
group. With children, there is no realization that acceptance by a gang
means acceptance for the goals of the gang and not the individual.
Positive groups like the Boy Scouts or Cub Scouts are everywhere.
Their goal is to benefit the group and the members. Gangs, on the other
hand, abuse society, individuals and ultimately the gang itself.
Notwithstanding, gangs do offer acceptance to its members. The difference
is that in gangs the more heinous the behavior, the greater the reward and
respect for the perpetrator.
Feeling Like An Outcast
When we are children our parents are our world. Whatever they say is
correct and we learn from them. As we age and form our own opinions,
conflict arises within us. By the time we are teenagers, we think our
opinion is more relevant than our parents. We don’t realize our parents
are doing the best they can, and we didn’t come with a with a child-rearing
manual.
Never the less we want our voice heard and if parents don’t listen, we seek
out those who will. We have choices and they determine whether we stay
connected to or disconnect from our family. If there is an available
gang that seems to think the way we do, we’re in. We are constantly seeking to
meet the need to belong.
Need For Security
As a child, we obtain virtually everything from our parents. As we
age, we slowly start to depend on others to meet our needs. The need for
companionship and group dynamics may start to diminish at home. This is a
normal cycle of life and is expected. At home, however, we have the
basics like food, clothing, security, and shelter. A child often thinks
that regardless of what happens, when he gets home mom or dad will take care of
it. As we mature, we start to feel a need to find security in other
people. And therein lies part of the problem.
The biggest problem with a quest for security is determining what type to
seek. Home gives you the type of security that generally works if you are
doing the right thing. Gangs give you security which is active and
aggressive regardless of your behavior as long as it is not against another
member.
Depending on our home situation the gang type of all-encompassing security
can be very attractive. Imagine that regardless of what you do, or to
whom it is done, you have a backup; you are always right. This
adverse lifestyle with few rules is just the enticement for leaving home and
joining the gang. It all seems so easy until you realize that you can’t
just change your mind and walk away. If you try it, what the gang did to
others, it will do to you. And so, your security becomes your insecurity,
and you realize you are in big trouble.
What’s your take on why gangs are on the rise? Do you feel more can be
done at home to keep children out of gangs? Do you think parents are
often the cause of children leaving to join gangs?
Clara Hunter King is a criminal defense attorney and founder/president of Watchdogs For Justice, Inc., a non-profit organization established in 2003 to help keep kids out of prison.